Who I Created the Hookup Series For…
I created this for the girl who really wants a relationship.
I created this for the girl who keeps settling for a hookup even though she wants a lasting, fulfilling relationship.
I created this for the girl who is tired of playing games.
I created this for the girl who is DONE with the douches.
I created this for me...like 5 years ago…
After the trauma, I ran into the arms of guys who gave me attention, made me feel pretty, but never wanted more than a hookup. I wrote this as things I wish I knew then.
I did not create this for the girl who is happy just hooking up.
I did not create this for the girl who doesn’t want a relationship.
I did not create this for the girl who already has a happy, healthy relationship.
No offense or judgement to the girls above, you are just not who I created this for.
Why only dating guys who are your “type” is sabotaging your chance at a relationship and the two qualities that matter in a partner!
If you realize that ALL the guys you date are the “fun” types, that don’t want serious relationships, then DATE different guys. CHANGE YOUR TYPE.
The definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
So, don’t be insane. Date a guy outside your typical circle. Step outside your comfort zone and date someone you probably wouldn’t normally- whether that’s because of appearance, career, social skills, etc. Step outside your comfort zone and I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised and may even find your “type” BUSTED.
Our "types" are literally just who we are "used to" dating. They have nothing to do with compatibility, only comfortability. Don't be afraid to get uncomfortable and date someone who you normally might not consider "your type."
The two REAL things that matter in a partner are character and shared values.
If you have on your list a guy who is at least 5’10” with chiseled abs and a 6-figure salary, I’m sorry girl but rip that list up. None of that shit is important.
What matters is that he is a good person. He is good to you and he is good to other people. That what is important to you is important to him. That he respects and listens and you can respect and listen to him as well.
So, girl, if you find yourself dating all the douchebags, change who you date. Go out on a date with the guy who you would NEVER say yes to. And ask the sweet guy who maybe is too shy to ask you out, ask him out to coffee. There are so many amazing humans out there, if you aren’t finding them, you aren’t looking hard enough, or you aren't looking in different places.
That’s it for today. Go out and meet a guy who you normally wouldn’t !